Jealousy now-a-days is in trend. We believe nobody is jealous of nobody but in actual everybody is jealous of everybody, in one way or the other.
ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?
ARE YOU JEALOUS OF SOMEONE?
IS SOMEONE JEALOUS OF YOU?
If Yes, then you really need to read this. We usually say that a person is jealous of another person. Why? Why do we say this? How do we get to know if someone is jealous? What maybe the reason that a person gets jealous?
LET ME ANSWER ALL THE QUESTIONS. HERE ARE REASON WHY PEOPLE GET JEALOUS AND HOW JEALOUSY RUINS RELATIONSHIPS.
Thinking is good but, thinking the same thing again and again can create disasters. We usually start assuming unusual things and then believe that our thinking is accurate. We start developing a firm believe that our perception about a particular person or situation is right,but,in actual the situation is opposite. Overthinking makes you judgemental. You start making a false image of the person and start disliking him. You think that the other person is trying to pull you down. Deep inside you get jealous of that person and start behaving fake in front of the person you are jealous of.
JEALOUSY OR POSSESSION?
Jealousy is most common in the relationships. But how is it different from possession? Being possessive about your partner is okay but when possession overcomes love, it becomes jealousy. You get a strong feeling of jealousy when your partner blithely talks with someone else. You feel uncomfortable and insecure about yourself and, are afraid that your partner might leave you for someone else. But it is nothing like that. Overreacting in such a situation can create indifferences between you and your partner.
Why did you like her picture on facebook?
These type of questions are being asked to almost everyone who is in relationship. What you really need to understand is that maybe facebook has a like button and their is no restriction for liking pictures. You need to act mature. Doubting your partner and quarreling with him/her over silly reasons can ruin your relationship.
Because of your jealousy you start spying. You check the mobile phone of your partner, want to know the detail of each and every second of his/her life, that results in complicating things. Jealousy has no part in a healthy relationship. A relationship becomes successful if and only if there is mutual understanding between two people. So, do not try to perplex things and give personal space to your partner.
WATCHING PEOPLE BEING HAPPY:
We live in a society where if we are unhappy, we do not want to see other people happy as well. For example: If a person is not happy with his married life, he will always get jealous of people being happily married and raising a happy family. The point is that, out of jealousy, you fell like if you are unhappy, how can the other person live happily!
The more successful you become, the more people start to get jealous of you. You may sometimes think that why your friends or relatives are jealous of you. The answer is simple; because they can not tolerate your success. They can not handle the fact that they are left far behind you. Ultimately they are left with no option other than getting jealous.
JEALOUSY DOES NOTHING BUT DEGRADES OUR PERSONALITY. SO IT IS BETTER NOT TO GET JEALOUS IF SOMEONE BUYS A NEW PHONE OR A NEW CAR. ALWAYS APPRECIATE OTHERS AND FEEL HAPPY IN THEIR HAPPINESS. DEAL ALL THE JEALOUSY IN A POSITIVE WAY. DO NOT REACT IF PEOPLE TALK BEHIND YOUR BACK.THEY ARE BEHIND YOU FOR A REASON. FEEL HAPPY THAT THEY DO NOT HAVE THE COURAGE TO SAY ANYTHING ON YOUR FACE.
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